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Freida McFadden

Discussion Questions: The Boyfriend

Warning: Contains spoilers!

Book Cover: The Boyfriend by Freida McFadden

  1. What early signs—if any—suggest that Tom may not be as perfect as he appears? Did Sydney ignore any red flags, and why?
  2. How does the novel explore the dangers of idealizing someone at the start of a relationship? What role does fantasy play in Sydney’s attraction to Tom?
  3. How does Sydney’s past dating experience shape her vulnerability to someone like Tom? Do you think her expectations contributed to her ignoring her instincts?
  4. What is the significance of the ongoing murders in the background of the plot? How does that tension affect the way readers view Tom and Sydney’s relationship?
  5. How does the author use suspense and misdirection to keep readers guessing about Tom’s identity and intentions? Were you convinced at any point that he was innocent?
  6. What does this story say about modern dating culture—especially the risks women face? How does it tap into real-world fears?
  7. How do Sydney’s friends or support network influence her decisions? Were there moments where they helped or hindered her safety?
  8. If you were in Sydney’s position, would you have acted differently? At what point would you have started to question Tom’s behavior?
  9. Discuss how power and control manifest in Sydney and Tom’s relationship. What tactics does he use to gain her trust?
  10. What do you think the title The Boyfriend suggests about perception, roles, and danger? Is the term meant to be comforting, misleading, or ironic?
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